Sunday, January 23, 2011

Love Can Hurt So Much ... Why Bother To Love?

       Love has never been defined and never will be. 

We read novels about love without limitations, see movies 

about it on the big screen or TV, and that we can live 

happily ever after, but  not in real life.  In the matter of fact, our expectations are sometimes too high and the 

poor mate we choose can't humanly live up to what our expectations are. 

        

         The word "grow up" is the key to this problem. All  couples have disagreements, lose their temper most of the time, feel like they want to quit in the relationship and move on. 

       When we are young, love can be so magical or hurt to the very core of a person's being and they 

feel like their life is over. It is because of inexperience. Every heartbreak or every slight from another 

person you love helps you to become  stronger and is a learning path as  to what you really do want in 

a lifelong partner. It 'preps' you for that one true love that I can promise you will meet in the future. 

It's a tough road sometimes, and we all have our disappointments and lost loves, but manage to live 

and forge on. When you truly find love, you never lose it. You will  realize the guys or girls you 

'thought' you loved wasn't really the one that you waited for so long.




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